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A Different Kind of January: Strength, Balance and Lasting Change

by Juliana Spaven, Linda Tatum
Jan 01, 2026

Doesn't January just have a way of making us women feel like we’re already behind? All this new pressure to overhaul your life overnight.

But here’s the truth most of us learn in midlife: lasting change doesn’t come from force. It comes from alignment.

Maybe we're doing this season wrong. Maybe it's not about pushing harder — maybe it’s about building strength while honoring your nervous system, your hormones, and your energy. 

How to Create Lasting Change in Your Life

If there’s one thing midlife teaches us, it’s this: motivation is unreliable — identity is not. Lasting change begins when you stop saying “I want to be healthy” and start living from “I am a healthy person” shift. It all begins with your mindset.

There's actually a formula for making lasting change happen, and I happened to write a blog post about it. Click here to read more.

 

 

Balancing Masculine & Feminine Energy in Midlife

Creating harmony with masculine and feminine energy isn’t about becoming softer or doing less — it’s about pairing structure with nourishment, discipline with recovery, and strength with regulation.

Masculine energy builds muscle, routines, and consistency. Feminine energy restores, regulates, and protects your nervous system.

But how do you balance the two? Click here to read my full blog post on balancing both energies to thrive.

 

15 Ways to Reduce Stress in Midlife

Stress isn’t just emotional in midlife — it’s biological.

As estrogen shifts, your body becomes more sensitive to blood sugar swings, inflammation, poor sleep, overstimulation, and under-fueling. That’s why stress reduction isn’t a luxury anymore — it’s a hormonal strategy.

Some of the most impactful ways to reduce stress include: nourishing your body properly, moving with intention and building a strong recovery program. Read more on how to balance stress for the better.

 

The Winter Beauty Superfood Your Gut Will Love: Homemade Bone Broth

Bone broth is more than a cozy winter drink — it’s one of the most powerful nourishing foods for midlife women. Its gelatin-rich base helps soothe and repair the gut, support digestion, and calm inflammation, which often shows up as bloating, skin issues, or low energy.

Rich in collagen, minerals, and joint-supporting amino acids, bone broth supports mobility, immunity, sleep quality, and skin health — making it a true beauty-from-within ritual during the colder months.

You can find the nourishing homemade bone broth recipe I use and recommend here.

 

When Alcohol Stops Loving You Back: A Midlife Reframe

For so many of us, a glass of wine or a cocktail at the end of the day has long felt comforting — I know I was a High Noon girl not too long ago! But in midlife, our bodies change, and what once felt relaxing can now leave us anxious, inflamed, or wiped out the next day. This isn’t about willpower — it’s about understanding your body and what truly supports it.

In this post, I share how to gently reduce alcohol, honor your hormones, and reclaim sleep, energy, and emotional balance — without feeling deprived.

Find the full post here — your body (and nervous system) will thank you.

 

Aging Well with Linda Tatum

I loved my discussion with this 82-years young powerhouse, Linda Tatum. I've known Linda for years, and at nearly 83 years, she's once again reinventing herself by becoming a content creator. 

Fit, sharp, witty and fabulously seasonsed with a well-lived life, Linda's who I want to be when I grow up. Click here to watch our youtube interview and you can follow her on IG at @nextwithLinda.

 

Facial Exercise of the Month: Facial Symmetry

One of the most common questions I hear from women is: “Why does one eyebrow sit higher than the other?” The answer is almost always muscular — not makeup or genetics — and the good news is that muscles can be retrained.

As we move through midlife, habitual expressions and tension can cause the brow-lifting muscles to work unevenly, creating visible asymmetry even at rest. This month’s featured exercise focuses on gently activating the frontalis muscle, releasing excess tension, and re-educating the muscles responsible for lift and balance.

Try this eyebrow exercise today, and watch the full video here.

Want to see how it fits into a complete face and neck routine? Learn more about my full 6-module Facial Exercise Program.

 

Product of the Month: Relief by Sensitive Skin

If your skin ever feels red, tender, itchy, or reactive — especially after treatments like microneedling or during colder months — this is the soothing balm I personally use after I derma roll. It’s plant-based, incredibly gentle, and designed to calm irritation quickly while helping repair your skin barrier overnight, leaving skin comfortable, nourished, and naturally glowing by morning.

You can try it for yourself using my code "Juliana15" by tapping here to shop. 🌿✨

 

This year doesn’t need pressure or punishment.

It needs rhythm. It needs nourishment. It needs strength and softness.

You don’t need to become someone new. You just need to support the woman you already are — and the one you’re becoming.

I’m so glad you’re here, and I can’t wait to walk this next season with you.

With love,

Juliana

 

 

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